How Would You Define Biblical Love?
Let me share with you some of the things that I have seen and heard in the church over the last 20 years.
1) Biblical love does not offend. (disciples were concerned with offending -Matt.15:12)
2) Biblical love does not judge. (Matt.7:1) Judge not lest you be judged!
3) Biblical love covers a multitude of sins. (1 Peter 4:8) Interpretation: We should ignore the sin we see in others…cover it up so to speak.
Is this an accurate picture of what Biblical love is? If so then these are the things that we need to strive for in our church. We need to make every effort not to offend, not to judge and not to point out sin in another’s life.

Let me suggest to you that our culture has defined how we read those verses…not a proper understanding of the context and the original intent of the author. A text can not mean what it has not meant. (We can not say when these words were written 2000 years ago in meant X, but now in our day it means Y. There may be different ways to apply the truth, but the truth does not change.)
1. Biblical love does not offend…Jesus offended (Matt.15:10-19) The Gospel offends those who are perishing. (1 Cor.1:20-25) Now are we to be offensive people in our conduct. By no means but our message will be offensive. So our greatest concern is not to be non offensive, but rather to speak truth. This does not give license for people to be offensive in their actions or conduct, but the truth may offend.
2. Biblical love does not judge. There are plenty of Scriptures that seem to contradict Matthew 7:1, so what is Jesus talking about then. He is referring to the self-righteous judgment that was prominent in His day and is still seen in the church today. The kind of person who believes that they have reached perfection and that it is their job to point out the sin of everyone around them. This person is self-deceived and their sin is much more dangerous, because they do not recognize their sin. We can never come to another with any kind of pride, because we are fellow sinners until we should depart from this earth. However, a man in proper humility will come to his brother to help him with his speck in his eye. (Anyone ever had something in their eye…comfortable or not…it drives you crazy right…he still needs help) But we come out of love and concern not as a hypocritical judge. (James 5:19,20; Gal.6:1; Matt.18:15)
3. Biblical Love Covers a Multitude of Sins 1 Peter 4:8 This is to be interrupted not as an ignoring of the sin, but rather as a forgiving of the sin. The Lord’s prayer makes it clear that we are to forgive just as we have been forgiven by the Lord. This is the sense that Biblical love covers a multitude of sins.
Next we will look at what Biblical love looks like in the context of speaking the truth in love .